There was recently a court hearing to modify DH's custody order so that his DD can go to school. (The order said that BM was to get her for nine consecutive days a month and BM lives out of state, making it difficult for her to go to school.) BM didn't show to the court hearing so the Master and my DH proceeded without her. Because BM didn't bother to show or even inform the Master that she couldn't be there and because my DH and the maternal grandmother provided enough proof of BM's current situation, the nine days are now gone and BM gets two three hour supervised visits a month. BM was furious and started on her mother saying that she's disowning her and to stay out of her life. She then started with my DH saying that he isn't his DD's real father and that he should do what he does best and just walk away.
Today we get a notice in the mail that she's trying to modify the child support. We haven't received any support since July because she was on medical leave. She never reported that she was on medical leave and now owes arrears. She's trying to drop the support because she doesn't want to pay anything. Wouldn't it be up to him and not her to drop it though? Would they even drop it considering everything and that she just lost her portion of the custody?