DH and I are putting in a new kitchen after our dishwasher leaked and caused some major damage. History with BM is not good, always going back to court because she wants more $$. Her last request was denied by the judge. SD is 12. SD sent multiple pictures and a video via text of our kitchen at 80% completion to BM. DH asked her why she wouldn't sent those pictures and she said BM asked her to. I felt our privacy was violated. It's bad enough that she takes us back to court every chance she gets, and I say us because she always tries to bring my salary into it, we have to submit bank statements, credit card statement, etc., which she and her attorney review. Is it too much to ask to have my home remain private? I sent her an email and told her the next time she wanted to see a photo of my home, she should ask me not SD. She of course denied it and said SD sent the pictures on her own. I don't believe that for one minute. Extremely frustrated.