This past weekend was our first Thanksgiving with my fiance's daughter (whom is 9 yrs old). We were super excited and in the holiday spirit. Thursday we went to Thanksgiving with my family. I received 3rd row tickets to a UofM Gopher Hockey game so my fiance took his daughter to the hockey game on Friday......and here comes Saturday. Previously, my fiance, his daughter (ALJ) and I recently went shopping bought ALJ many new clothes. We were all getting ready to go to my fiance's for Thanksgiving dinner (his family rearranged all their Thanksgiving plans so we could celebrate with ALJ) and ALJ throws a temper tantrum as she "hates" all her new clothes. She decided she wants to talk to her mom so we allow her to call her mom. Five minutes later the cops are at the door, the x-wife called the cops on us claiming we were abusing her child and 20 mintues after that the x-wife shows up.
The saddest part about it is after ALJ talked to the cop by herself she started crying even harder because she didn't understand why the cops were there or what she did that was so wrong that they had to show up. My fiance and I didn't tell her anything.
I find it astoundingly horrible that any parent would call the cops before talking to the child to understand what was happening &/or talk to the parent before calling the police.
There is NO previous records or incidents of abuse or violence for either WEJ or myself. We've had Parenting Time with ALJ for five years. Within the last 4 months the x-wife's focus is to try to prove that we're violent and abusive towards her daugter. The x-wife was recently remarried (2 months ago) and WEJ and myself are getting married in May of 2014.
What ever happened to parents working together for the best interest of the child...........?