Is there anyone else that you* dislike as much as BM? Is there anyone that you judge or criticize as harshly as you judge or criticize BM?
I feel like there's a lot of unnecessary hostility towards BM**, and it just makes me wonder - Are you like that with everybody (your coworkers, your child's teacher, the mailman) or is it just BM specific? And if it's BM specific, why?
Why does it seem like conflict between BM and SM is okay, or even expected? I think it's silly that "Do you and BM get along?" is such a common question. I would think that, as a socialized adult, you should at the very least be able to get along with BM (obviously, it takes two and you shouldn't be faulted if BM is unwilling to try to get along).
I just don't get it.
Where does hating and criticizing BM get you?
* You is used as a general term. I'm not specifically saying that you are one of the BM haters.
** I am well aware that this can be flipped. There are also BMs that are just as hostile towards SMs.