Ss has became obsessed with butts. He started by coming into the bathroom when dd was bathing and grabbed her butt. Then about a week later I heard dd screaming from the playroom. When I got upstairs, ss had his pants and undies pulled down asking dd to touch his butt. It calmed down for a couple weeks after that. But last night, ss came into the bathroom while dd was bathing and took a picture of her. Then this morning, he came into the bathroom and watched her pee. When we asked why he said he wanted to watch her because he loved her.
Each time, we've talked about the bathroom being off limits when someone's in there and that it's not ok to touch someone's private parts. It's just overwhelming. We got an appointment scheduled with the dr so she can talk to him about everything and see if something's going on- but it's all really fucking too much to deal with.
Dh thinks that ss just thinks butts are funny and he'll grow out of it. We've never been great about making the kids close doors, because they need help cleaning themselves and stuff like that sometimes. We have put a new closed door policy in effect starting immediately though.