I need to get this out so I don't text BM and cause more issues. DSD lives with me and DH full time. BM lives a state away. Since DSD has been slacking big time with grades DH told her she will be doing more chores around the house until her grades get picked up and her behavior in class improves. DSD goes on about how she wants to go live with her mom and called her mom. BM calls DH and tells him that her child will be no ones **insert "n" word here** DH then explained to her this is her punishment and she's under his roof, his rules.
She thinks we're too hard on her. Well I'm not going to apologize for wanting better for your child than you have provided her with thusfar.
THEN BMs middle daughter "17" text DH this message
"You're living proof of a fucking moron. 1 yeah I drink once in a while but Im getting my shit done at school. What the fuck are you doing ? You're being a lowlife, living off of a woman, what a man you are. Instead of being such a BITCH all the damn time how about yoy get off your lazy fucking ass-i know it'll be something new for you- and go look for a job. & for 2 my sister will be better off living over here getting her shit done, getting the motivation she needs and not being a bunch of lazy peoples' bitch. And BTW Im almost 17 and not pregnant, Just thought I'd let you know :) "
I am baffled that a child would speak this way to adult. No respect. Because DSD has rules that makes us horrible people. I wish I could say to BM everything I've kept bottled up for so long.
I feel better. Thanks for reading :)