so, last night was ss5's christmas program at school. after, BM, SO, me and all our kids w the exception of my oldest went to pizza.
BM has family court today. she served party boy by mail last month. she wasnt sure if he got it because she hadnt heard boo. well, he responded by mail and she barely got it this week. she begged me and SO to go with her because she had no one to go. the one friend who would was watching her baby. i told SO to go, but i have to work.
in party boys response, he wants 50/50 timeshare, joint legal and physical and he wants to baby sit while she works because he doesnt have a job. i told her def do not go for that, because he will flake and leave you with your ass in your hand when you need to go to work. aside from that, he dranks and lays up all day and where the hell would he even take her, and how since his license is suspended. she agreed. his parents had called her the night before looking for him because he hadnt even called his daughteres (that he has full custody of due to their mom being deceased) for a week.
well SO said party boy looked shocked and mad that he was there, he always accused her of having something going with him (they have nothing going, he wasnt even going to go but i told him to) he came alone, but shortly after his bff showed up. the judge told BM and party boy to go talk to the pro bono attorney downstairs, so they did. the attorney told them to try to figure something out, so BM walked toward party boy and he told her "you aint getting what you want so just go sit down" way to compromise buddy.
now they are just waiting. stay tuned.