I am truly confused. I thought this group was to "support" STEP parents?
All I have read on alot of these replies to the group members concerns are "stay out of it" "you're not the parent" "let DH or BM handle it"
You cant JUST stay out of it. Everything that happens in your family Biological or step affects you in EVERY way. I thought when I joined this group I would have people who understood the pressure of not having a say in anything "legally" that is. But all I have been met with is " so what, get over it, you're just the person there in the home for DH"
You know what. NO I am not! I am the person who's heart, emotions, blood, sweat, and tears goes into keeping the family unit together. Just bc I am labeled "step" doesn't mean I have no heart to wear on my sleeve.