DH and BM had a huge argument early this month over a visitation that she cancelled, DH was livid and they have not spoken since, BM has been texting about Christmas supplies and the money, SS has been texting as well. DH has decided that he won't be paying for BM's Christmas any longer, he will indicate to her that she needs to send SS to him for Christmas, SS doesn't have school so there should no problem.
Question: Is it too late, after 10 years of paying for BM's Christmas, to stop that practice and request that SS spends Christmas with him?
Is SS request enough reason to request a change in the Christmas arrangement? Does he need to give a reason at all for the request?