I'm just trying to find some answers on how to handle my husbands ex. She has been causing drama for months. I've been married to my husband for over a year. We met we were fine. Then my SD & SS would go telling there mom I was mean to them. I'm sorry but I have rules in my home & when there in my care they need to respect me & the rules in the home. It's to the point now where the ex is calling my husband saying she wants to fight me. Back in the days I would have lol but I'm a mother now and I have priorities in my life & don't have time for pert drama. And my husband never speaks up. He defends me to a minimum but now I'm tired this whole situation is driving me in sane. It's causing problems in my marriage & it really is distancing me from my step kids. I feel like I can't be myself in my own home, I have to watch what I say, what looks I make, if I'm quiet or if I'm to loud. Please help how do I handle this whole situation before I file for divorce. Ohhh I forgot to mention him & I just had our first baby 3 weeks ago. So basically I've dealt with all this during my pregnancy and still going through it.
on Dec. 29, 2013 at 5:47 AM