I have been with my husband for 9 years married 4. I have 1 child from a previous relationship and I have 2 children with my husband. He also has a child from a past relationship. It is very hard for me to be astep mother to my sd because her mother and i have never gotten along.
since day one she has said lots of nasty stuff about me saying she knows who i am and what im about when in fact she doenst. im not from the same town as her at all. she has always tryed to get into the middle of my relationship. she never stops. it really pisses me off. my husband hates her bc she cheated on him with 2 of his cousins his bf and some other guy thats why he left her.. you know whats crazy is that my sister in-law is bf with her and they both cause so many problems with me. they have a different problem with me every month they never stop! im sick if ut all. she also puts my sd in the middle of everything and keeps her from my husband and comes up w bs reasons why. they are making her hate me! my husband has told his sister he is dont with her and hes sick or her crap and he is done with her.
he x will text my husband and say ur wife causes so many problems why cant u see it shes like if she wasnt in the picture then we would be cool! wtf mind you she has another kid with someone else and she has a bf which my sister in law has slept with the whole time bio mom was pregnant. everyone knows it she just doesnt wanna believe it. she texted my husband the day before christams eve and she was like your wife needs help and i know it has nothing you you prob have no idea and were fine but she needs mental help. my husband texted back and said leave me and my wife alone im tired of your shit dont call or text me ever unless it has something to do with my dayghter. but she cant stop her self she always makes problems with me. my sister in law talks lots of crap with bio mom in front of my sd my sd told us that last weekend! thats so wrong! she wouldnt give her to us on christmas eve they are suposed to split the time and christmas we only had her for 3 hours and she didnt even want to leave. hi sister and his x are on my last friggen nerve i cant take it they are trying so hard to ruin my marriage. i cant take it icry all the time and im sick if it its been 9 years. idki what to do any more. any advie is welcome. Thanks :)