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Bra on a 4 year old?!

Posted by on Jan. 26, 2014 at 1:00 PM
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So bm put a bra on almost 4 year old sd, dh and I thought it inappropriate and explained that she is still a kid and did not need the bra. BM thinks its totally fine that she wears it and is upset that we said she didnt need it. Who's right?! 

by on Jan. 26, 2014 at 1:00 PM
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amantonacci
by Platinum Member on Jan. 26, 2014 at 1:02 PM
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What kind of bra are we talking about? It's not a matter of wrong or right it's the matter of difference of opinion.

cpatton90
by on Jan. 26, 2014 at 1:05 PM
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Thats true, but she goes to wrong and right, dh always explains that the rules and guidelines are different at the two different homes and what may be okay there is not always okay here. It was just a double layered bra, nothing fancy she is only 4 but its more the principal of her still being a kid to us.

amantonacci
by Platinum Member on Jan. 26, 2014 at 1:13 PM
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So then dad should just tell his dd he doesn't allow it at his house. Problem solved! 

PumpkinSpice8
by Silver Member on Jan. 26, 2014 at 1:14 PM
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If it was a cup bra, then I'd be concerned.

But if it was a half-cami or sports bra type, no big deal. Those are no different than an undershirt. I feel it's more modest to wear one of those than go without.
packermom4ever
by Still The Queen on Jan. 26, 2014 at 1:22 PM
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It doesn't matter if you agree or not.  "We" don't need to say anything to the mother.  


kellynh
by Kelly on Jan. 26, 2014 at 1:23 PM
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They make them for kids her age. My dd's had a couple. It didn't warp them

momof2ex1
by Ruby Member on Jan. 26, 2014 at 1:24 PM
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I don't see anything wrong with these for A 4 year old.

Quoting kellynh:

They make them for kids her age. My dd's had a couple. It didn't warp them

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PumpkinSpice8
by Silver Member on Jan. 26, 2014 at 1:25 PM
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Those are super cute! And age appropriate!

Like I said earlier, half-camis are basically just an undershirt.


Quoting kellynh:

They make them for kids her age. My dd's had a couple. It didn't warp them

LaughCryLive
by Member on Jan. 26, 2014 at 1:25 PM
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you are over reacting and it's not your kid.

kellynh
by Kelly on Jan. 26, 2014 at 1:29 PM
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Im thinking of getting the Hello Kitty one for my 5yo :) Cute!! 

Quoting momof2ex1: I don't see anything wrong with these for A 4 year old.

Quoting kellynh:

They make them for kids her age. My dd's had a couple. It didn't warp them


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