HUGE UPDATE!!!BM told 11 Yr old SD she was almost aborted.uPDATE!
And that she was conceived thru rape.
Recently, we caught SD sneaking texting her friends on her SS's tablet, when she was supposed to be sleeping. If we knew she was doing this and allowed it, we never wouldv looked at her texts. But her dad did, and she complained about what her mom told her to a friend saying, "At least your mom wasn't raped!" At least your mom didn't consider aborting you!"
Her dad is not her bio dad, but he's been her dad since two yrs old, and no one knows who her bio dad is. So, he IS her dad and she lives with us full time. She's not a problem child and doesn't display how or if this info is hurting her. We only know from these texts.
How can her dad help her. Was just way TMI for her.
The Guidance counselor called today to tell us SD's been cutting herself! BM just told DH she told SD the info because SD keeps "saying mean things to her" SHE WAS TRYING TO HURT HER!!!
I just had a convo with SD to let her know how much we love her. She told me her mom is angry with her, that "she's putting her in this position" Im in disbelief! SHE IS HER MOTHER! And now she's coming here tonight to talk with her!!!