long story short.......No Co , Mother only wants to communicate with me concerning my step son , I'm trying to wean her off lol.
last satuday my step sons mom wanted to have a meeting about why all of a sudden i didnt want to talk to her.
In this meeting my DF discussed his wishes:
1. will send you pictures if big things happen and we will update you on the visit on drop offs/pick ups.( because she will harress him untill he gets a picture )
2.communication is only with DF
3. pick ups and drops off DF will put in the car seat.
4. a set phone time
5. dont call my DF wok for non emergencies
( she had told me from the start that she wanted to work with me ! that she cant talk to my DF .)
so the meeting ended with her talking BAD about my unborn baby ! so after a few smart remarks i told her to leave my house! she gave us the "I'll see you in court and it will be nasty " THREAT.
so yesterday , my DF texts her ( texting is best because she lies in texts and its awesome to have! i ENCOURAGE IT ! ) asking when can he pick his son up next week for his birthday . she told himhe can no longer visit because she feels that i'm hiting my step son with my boots.
(Crazy thing is we had a conversation last pick up about my step son screaming at women who wear boots. my step son hates when i wear my boots because i usually leave the house and he doesn't like it when i leave. so he will ask me to put on my flip flops or my socks . )
she is now using that against me and saying that she assumes that's why he hates boots.
her texts to him yesterday didn'tmake sense! she accuse me of hiting my step son and then texts him things like . Ashley only loves herself , she needs to get over herself , you have your new family now .
I'm lost because all i want is for my DF and his baby mother to communicate , i ask for that and she flips on me !!!