So we had our coparenting meeting. It included both parents as well as SF and I. It was super awkward at first and felt very tense when we first got there. BM let DH start and stared at him with a look like "I don't care about what you're going to say" but after she heard what he had to say her mood lightened. She even asked for my input and DH asked for SF input. BM explained that she wasn't being nasty to me intentionally. She just wanted more communication with DH and when I told her that I felt the same she laughed and said that was why we needed meetings. Lol. All the money issues got corrected and the hostility between DH and SF seemed to go away too.
After the 2 hour meeting I feel much better. Even this morning she is back to speaking to me so I know she feels better too.
We all agreed to periodically have these meetings so the 4 of us can be on the same page and continue to work through things as a team.
Now to just get the kids to realize they can't pin us against each other lol.
on Feb. 26, 2014 at 9:28 AM