My spouse gets his son every other weekend, his son manipulates him so bad. The only thing he ate today was a few slices of cheese and candy, and not because we didn't feed him, but because he wont eat anything we fixed for him (bowl of cereal, a cup of velveeta shells and cheese, and then red beans and rice for dinner). His dad tells him to eat three bites and then he can have desert.........and I'm like "whoa, he hasn't eaten a full meal all day and you're going to reward him with a brownie?" Am I terrible to think there is something wrong with that? Oh yeah, I'm new to this site and would appreciate any help and patience! How do I find out what BM and DH mean?