Advice on how to be supportive and not over step my boundary
BM just recently quit her job which seems to be increasing SD worry over money.
SD is currently planning on going to the prom. Last night SD was talking about shopping for dresses. She said that she found a couple of dresses but does not know how she is going to get the money to buy one. DH asked her how much are these dresses. SD stated they were all under $100. He then told her that we would buy her dress. I am perfectly fine with this and do not have an issue. She then asked if I would go to the mall with her today to see what we could find. I enjoyed spending the time with her. We found several dresses. I told her to think about which one she really liked or we can continue to look if she is not in love with any if them. I reminded her that we would tell her if the dress was too much but to not stress over the money.
I also told her that I wanted to make sure that BM had a part in the dress decision(I do this on things like this in order for BM to not feel like I am trying to take things over or take away a special moment from her).
My question is How do we help SD not stress over money so much? We have seen how this is impacting her emotionally. I want to also not overstep any boundaries