Hello, This is my 1st time posting and I need some help for my daughter. I have been divorced for over 10 yrs. My youngest girl wanted to live w/ her Dad and his wife due to having her own bedroom, friends, school and did not want to live w/ her older sister. I rented an apt. w/ the oldest.
Problem: The youngest went to college 6 hours away from her home for 4 yrs., graduated and was chosen to work for a company there. She has been supporting herself for those 4 yrs and rented an apt. when she started working. She now wants to go back to her hometown, go to a school there that was the best for what she studied in college. To get her masters would be 2 yrs. not working. She asked to stay w/ Dad and SM due to close proximity to her school. The SM is letting her know that she is not happy w/ her coming back to their home and told my daughter she didn't want to deal w/ people living there again. My daughter cried her eyes out. She is the best child never any trouble, very self sufficient, respectable and polite. SM told her she was spoiled because once her Dad gave her an old car because her's needed too much work and became unsafe. How do I console my daughter and explain to her why she shouldn't feel so rejected?
Thanks for reading. Bright