My DH met with his lawyer this week regarding BM wanting to change ss's school next year to a school zoned for her address. DH has used his address the past three years bc BM moves around so often (9times in 4 yrs) bm is listed as PRP but educational matters and any other major decisions are to be decided jointly. BM just thought she could tell DH she was changing his school and there was nothing he could do about it bc she was PRP. But she was wrong! A little letter should be arriving to her address sometime soon stating she is unable to solely make the decision of changing ss's school without dh's approval or taking it to court and letting the judge decide. The letter is also going to state that we will be taking a cruise at the end of may which she told DH he couldnt take the kids on a cruise bc she wouldn't allow it. Lawyer said if it's his time he can do whatever he wants with them he only has to give her a 14 day notice and where we will be going. Finally gonna burst that "I'm mommy and what I say goes" bubble. Lawyer said she is labeled PRP solely for child support purposes and that it does not give her the ability to have final decision making over anything or any other rights over DH. They either have to agree, go to mediation, or take it to court.
on Mar. 22, 2014 at 6:17 AM