I am concerned that as an adult stepmother with 2 adult SD's who seem like they are concerned that I am a "gold digger". I had $ when I married (tho not as much as husband), insisted on pre-nup (I had been taken before), paid for 1/2 our current house and property, etc. Subtle remarks ie., "you retired at 45!" (not true); Dad you can't use same lawyer as she does (not my choice - his choice)...
The oldest SD is very money oriented and discusses all her "concerns" with younger SD. Nothing confrontational at this point (their father and I are in pretty good health at this time) but I am going to discuss the innuendos with eldest SD to prevent any escalation soon. Her father does not "see any problems" and wonders if I am imagining things (not!). Any tips for adult conversation with eldest SD?
on Mar. 28, 2014 at 3:28 AM