For the new stepmoms and the not-so-new that are sincerely seeking help
Be careful. Take "advice" with a grain of salt. Listen to the ladies that are kind and offer constructive solutions. I have seen countless women ripped to shreds in here by a group of angry bio mothers. Women come here seeking help...some are at wits end...and they get greeted with hostility, anger and judgment.
It makes me sad to know that someone hitting rock bottom in step hell comes to a "support site" and instead of support they get devoured.
Not all groups are like this..some are kind and helpful.
Good luck to you!