That parents cease to have a say in their child's life on the other parent's time after a divorce happens?
Who babysits - doesn't matter what mom/dad thinks if it isn't their time. Why not? Still their child, no?
What the kid eats (to a degree) - like no soda, no sugar. What is so wrong with a parent having a voice int hat for their own kid?
What they wear, what sports they do, or what they watch. When did a parent stop being a parent just because the parents didn't work out?