Attorney got back to us today and said we needed to bring him a birth certificate and print out both his criminal history from public record and child support history. Which... he finally started getting garnished in February after having ran from it since ds was 2 when the judge finally started it up. I am now feeling like I have gone into fight mode. Whether he is bluffing or not he is not going to know what hit him when I'm finished. Please tell me if I am over reacting or wrong for feeling the need to blow him apart in court.
It is also now Friday and I have not heard anything back from him about the counseling with Z either. That just occurred to me as I was typing this update. I'm not shocked at all with him at this point.
We have been going through ALOT lately. I was driving an hour to and an hour from my mom's four days a week to care for her while she had cancer. She passed 3 weeks ago. We have been hit repetitively with stupid family drama crap since which I can deal with. Just one step at a time.
I offered ex a chance to very slowly come back around to see ds here supervised. Spoke to the counselor and she said she thinks this is okay.
Anyway.... X ridiculous amount of time, AFTER HE OPTED NOT TO, later I get a text from ex stating "r u gonna let me see Z or not?".
Really? He knew the answer to that question. I told him he could come here and he said " No thanks. We will handle this another way".
Anyway so we texted back and forth a few times and I told him I spoke to z's counselor and she suggested he come into the picture going to counseling with him. He is as of right now unsure and will "get back to me".
Apparently he was informed that he is not to come here to see Z.
I am going to talk with our attorney tomorrow and get prepared. I know he doesn't have a leg to stand on with his history however every one of his girlfriend's ex and current will put on a show. He is a really skilled pathological liar. So who knows. I am still putting myself back together from my mom passing. The last thing I want to deal with is my psycho ex and his girlfriend's attorney.
If this doesn't make sense I apologize. Just exhausted and not thinking straight for the moment.