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Yup i'm an awful woman

Posted by on Apr. 5, 2014 at 2:20 AM
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And a completely evil step mother. I told dh months ago after accusations were made against me that i refuse to watch or be alone with his two sons. I will not be put into position to be more than occasional chef and conversationalist. He decided to tell me i'm watching them tomorrow. I said no i refuse to be alone with them. Now he is pouting and calling me an awful wife. I don't really care. I have no rights and no respect, i won't be the baby sitter.
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momof2ex1
by Ruby Member on Apr. 5, 2014 at 3:45 AM
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He sounds like a 5 year old. You're not awful. You're standing your ground and upholding your boundary. Good for you.
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chanizen
by Platinum Member on Apr. 5, 2014 at 5:17 AM
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Nope you aren't awful

"Dearest darlingest husband. Please remove thy head from thy ass"
whatIknownow
by Emerald Member on Apr. 5, 2014 at 6:24 AM
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Good for you for standing up for yourself. Maybe if he wants your babysitting services, he should ensure that his kids are pleasant to babysit for.

Leigh84
by Gold Member on Apr. 5, 2014 at 8:25 AM
I don't think it's awful expecially if there were untrue accusations against you.
HopesNDreams
by Silver Member on Apr. 5, 2014 at 8:38 AM
How dare you!!!!

Just kidding....you are absolutely right!

HopesNDreams

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zannahdeux
by Silver Member on Apr. 5, 2014 at 9:14 AM

Hopefully this prompts him to want to fix the sitch

Graceplustwo
by Bronze Member on Apr. 5, 2014 at 9:51 AM
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your my hero. id cave in ..... sigh
Silent_Sea
by Gold Member on Apr. 5, 2014 at 10:25 AM
It takes a long time to move past accusations. Boundaries are important. Good for you on enforcing them.
soonergirl980
by Gold Member on Apr. 5, 2014 at 11:01 AM

good for you

cdrainey3
by Cher on Apr. 5, 2014 at 11:04 AM
I agree with everyone else, good for you for enforcing boundaries! You're not awful at all!
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