I'm a SM to a beautiful almost three year old little girl.
Now my husband and I are pregnant with our first child together (my first bio-child). I have run into the dilemma of how to phrase things. For example, is it wrong of me to say "our first child." Emphases on the OUR, since it's not HIS first, but OUR first. Or do I have to add the "together" at the end to make it known that we don't at all exclude my SD from our family or lives?
How have you all handled this situation? Maybe I'm over thinking it.