Why agree to something and then change your mind a year later????
This is the crap that really makes me strongly dislike BM (not that I like her period). BM got remarried and moved to another town. 15 mins away so it's no big deal. Well BM wanted to redo the living arrangements with the skids so SS lives with us full time and SD lives with BM full time. We have SD every Thursday night and EOWE to include Sunday night. Before this change we were 50/50, both parents still have joint custody just primary residences now. SD and SS were going to same school district but with BM moving, she wanted SD to go to the district that she lives in since she has primary residence now. Anyway, BM agreed to all of this because she needed the papers signed. BM's dad picks up SD when it's DH overnight with school the next morning and drops her off at BM's house because he goes right by there going to work (and he lives 2 miles from us). Well grandpa is retiring next month and now BM wants to renig on her part of the agreement with SD staying overnight on school nights because it's too early for SD to get up. Seriously? She knew all of this when she agreed to the papers and now that Grandpa can't do her part of the running, she doesn't want to.
Last Sunday BM sent a text saying that her dad had to be at work early Monday morning so she wanted to meet and pick up SD at 8:30 (this is becoming a normal thing). DH says no, my overnight as usual so Grandpa can pick her up at 5:30 monday morning or SS can take her and meet you at 6:30 or 6:45. BM flew off the handle and said why are you going to risk SS driving that early in the morning and that's your job and not his and you can tell SD why she has to get up 30 mins earlier and lots of other things and so on. Well it was ok the day before for SS to pick up SD at BM's house (snow make up day on Saturday) because BM posted a pic on FB about the wonderful surprise she got by SS stopping by but it's not ok every other Monday morning for SS to get up 15 minutes earlier??????? DH sent a text back saying that since she feels so strongly about SS not driving that early in the morning then he won't be driving his truck to her house during the summer and she can make arrangements for him to be a football practice at 7 am. Have not heard a word about it since and Grandpa picked up SD monday morning.
Seriously - why be this way? It's her way or the highway and I hate seeing DH being put through the ringer for every little thing. What do you think?