Youngest sd is in baton, we just got word her recital is the same time as when they would be gone. Shes worked so hard these past 3 months. I hate for her to miss it. She is SO excited about it! Plus we got report cards 2 weeks ago and she's wwwaaayyy behind(we have already had 2 parent teacher conferences about this) so dh told ex fsther in law that it would be best if they didnt go. Ex will be home for 2 weeks after she graduates and can see them then. Ex fil hits the roof and texts bsck "watch and see" then starts harrassing dh all day with threats and even showed up at our house!!!!! Dh went to the sherriff office but was told he cant press charges against him about harrassment through text so dh gets his number changed.
He texts his nee number to ex and she hits the roof saying he csnt keep her father from the gorls blah blah. She calls dh cussing and acting a fool. I had had enough and grab the phone and say "shutup u stupid b****" and hung up. I shouldnt have said it but i had my fill of her and her dad blowing up dh's phone for 3 days and basically talking to him like dirt.
She continues the next day to text dh about me and sayinh shes taking the kids so i texted her myself. Im the type if u have something to say then say it to me, not someone else. We sorta get into it but i eventually just let it go.
So now shes saying when she gets home, be prepared to go to court and lose custody. Shes in the army. Shes a single parent and like i said doesnt pay child support, hasnt sent anythinh for the girls besides an army shirt, which i assume is probably free to her. They call her almost daily and she never answers but had plenty of time to text and call dh and myself to argue.
Can she do anything? I am a stay at home mom, we are surrounded by family, the kids are cery well tsken care of. We have never prevented a relationship between the girls and their mom but their life and activities do not stop just to convience her. Her graduating is HER accomplishment. My sd having her shining moment on stage showing all her hard work is HER accomplishment and with her being behind in school she doesnt need to miss even a day(they wouldve been gone 3 weekdays plus the weekend)Plus the ex will be home the next week.