For all you new members and first timer posters!!!!
Okay now that Princess is home safe-I'm going to add all of this in. I'm not posting this to piss people off....really I'm not. It's a little nerve racking for those of us who have been here for quite some time,for new posters to come in here crying/whining or just merely venting/seeking advice and then they get all butt hurt because we don't tell them what they want to hear.
Hear me out ladies-most of us have been here for quite a few years....some of us have been "in the game" for years and years-we've been there, done that-got the tshirt. Majority have survived. So when the new sm's come in here seeking advice-please realize we know what we're talking about.
I've yet to see a situation posted in here that doesn't have a viable solution. And there are solutions!! Life is about options-Try 1-if that doesn't work-try another.
You may think we're catty or anti-bm or anti-sm.....nope we're just a group of awesome bitches that can help with a wide variety of options/solutions.
Keep an open mind....there may be advice that could help you,whether it be right now or later down the road.
We're not here to hold hands.....we don't sing kumbya....hell I can't sing so don't bother asking!
We don't coddle or babywalk you through anything.We're all grown ups here-dealing with real life situations...we're gonna be honest and to the point.
And if after all of this, if you're still butt hurt....please feel free to try another group more suited to your needs!
Thank you and have a great day!