I was explaining this to dh last night he said what about sd ? (who is 19)
I said this includes her .he got angry at me .I told him im also including the inlaws my parents my siblings everyone but dh and ds1 .
He said well she expects to be let in the hospital room to see the baby .I told him then tell her I dont want any visitors including her .it turned into a argument .
This really isnt personal against her but our history doesnt help things .i was a csm from 12-18 things were ok but Sd has never liked me no reason other than im not her bm .she has never given me a chance has lied about me to cps (she did same thing to her sd and bm ) and lies about me to pretty much everyone who will listen to her .shes stolen from me and been rude disrespectful since day one .
I dont trust her around my kids because she tried to teach ds1 that shes his mother not me basically anything to make me feel like im not part of the family .even in regards to my child .
she also likes to take pics of herself with my ds and pass him off as hers or put the pics on fb for her mother to see .she tags her mother in the pic so its says "me and my new baby bro with bm name here " so it looks like my child is her mothers to people who dont know .
.im not ok with that and I know its the first thing she will do at the hospital .
She has no respect for me as a person she does not see me as a family member so i dont see why i should make a special exception for her I dont even want my own mother there .
Urghh talk about stress I dont need right now .
Sorry ladies im just venting