We just got back Sunday from taking step kids and my son to Florida for spring break. Tonight before bed I find my son crying. Stepson was "bulling him". His words because what step son said upset him. Step son said "you are so spoiled". "You or to go to NYC an we wanted to" and apparently a few other things. The NYC trip was last July.
So I have no idea how to handle this. On one hand my son needs to learn how to stand up for himself on the other hand I feel like it's just common sibling stuff that if they were blood brothers I may not be so upset about. My DH has no comment on this at all and my mom bear instinct wants to tell step son to stop calling my son spoiled just because his mother does nothing with him when she has him it's not my fault. (Which I would never say but know this is probably the root cause, that or the fact my son sees DH more than his own children do)
I will probably leave it and I told my son not to be afraid to stand up for himself but would love advice because this is the probably the 5th time one of the step kids has mentioned this trip they didn't get to go on to my son and how spoiled he is. They don't get that he isn't spoiled we are just living our lives even if they aren't here.