my bf has twin girls almost two and we have a baby girl that is 7 months. it seems to me that he has a deeper love for them. idk what it is. we got together when they were 5 months and he did everything for them fed them, changed them and i even helped. then we have a baby of our own and he gets annoyed that i ask him for help to feed her or change her. and when she crys. he says she needs to learn to be alone and play by herself. but everytime one of his others cry he runs to them and comforts them. i dont understand. does he think she is not special because she is not a twin. he is always comparing himself and the tiwns to eachother. but never has anything to say about our daughter. its really upsetting to see him parent his other kids so well and act like our daughter is just a chore..ANY THOUGHTS ON THIS. anyone deeling with a situation similar? also im worried our daughter wont feel included in this family. they are always stressing the twin thing and doing their hair the same and dressing the same. i just think its rude. everyone should be treated as an indivual. if my daughter should learn to play alone..shouldnt they need to do the same??