Exh married a much younger woman with no children. Now she wants to be mom to my 16-year-old. She has has previously overstepped her bounds. I tried to discuss with exh and he took her side of things.
Last week he called to tell me he was going out of town for six weeks for work and wanted me to know since we trade off taking our son to dental appointments. He mentioned our son might like to see his new wife while he was gone. I was non-commital saying I would discuss it with my son.
Behind my back exh strong-armed my son into agreeing to visitation with his step-mom of two years. I am very angry. I know my son wants to please his dad. I know he didn't mean to hurt my feelings. When I tried to sidestep the issue exh got very angry.
Do I send my son to the step-mom for visitation including the Memorial Day Weekend which was never discussed with me or stand my ground and keep my son at home where I feel he belongs? I feel strong armed into doing something I am uncomfortable with.