SS10 is nearing 11. He is starting to get BO, he still hates taking showers and changing his clothes. He is gross (like most boys that age) and needs his parents to assist in getting him to perform any and all hygenic activities- showering, brushing his teeth, combing his hair, and yep, wearing deodorant. This is all typical hormonal boy stuff that I figured would happen. I have two younger brothers and already went through it with them.
But the next item is so gross and I'm a little confused as to if it is normal, or if SS actually needs to be sat down and talked to about.
Peeing all around the toilet and leaving poop smears on the toilet seat.
I am not kidding. He leaves PUDDLES of piss on the floor, and I just so happened to have been the one to step in it the other morning. I told DF and SS both someone peed all over the floor and missed the toilet completely and neither would cop to it (I wouldn't put it past DF if he was extremely tired, but this wasn't the case). I asked DF if he had noticed anything and he said he had gone in after SS had blow up the bathroom and there was shit streaks on the toilet seat. And it has happened several times and he was the lucky one to clean it up that time.
This has NOT been an issue in four years so I don't know why it is now.
Any suggestions on how to approach the situation?