My Dad was diagnosed with cancer and given 6 months to live. We are telling our boys tonight, SS included.
Before anyone asks, SS is 10, I've been with DH since he was 8 months old. My Dad is a big part of our lives and SS is pretty close to my Dad, so not telling him isn't an option.
So my question is this. Should we tell BM before we tell SS, just to give her a heads up? Or do we wait and tell her on Sunday when she picks SS up for Mothers Day? I want her to know in case he has any questions or if he gets upset.
Also, off topic, but anyone have any tips for when we tell them? I'm kinda stressing out about it!