Of monitoring phone calls now..bm relapsed and is back in rehab after being in jail for showing up drunk to probation, we are on vacation in florida(took the girls todisney!) And i started getting calls from a number i didnt recognize and if i dont recognize a # i dont pick up if its important theyll leave a message. Iguess her counselor told her she should call her dd through me instead of through df(he proposed!). Dont really know how i feel about doing this. But i do know if shes rude atall im hanging up because when shes sober she can be decently nice and if shes drinking her judgement is way off and she cant talk to her dd(per court order she needs to be sober for phone calls and visits) so i guess what im asking is would you just say no sorry im not doing that or would you see how it goes first, i kind of think with the history i should just say no. But i am better at judging if shes drunk or not, df tends to give her the benefit of the doubt and thats not in his dds best interest.
on May. 9, 2014 at 10:13 PM