We had my oldest stepson's first communion yesterday and I had to watch while my DH stood for pictures with his ex wife and their son. It shouldn't bother me but it does. I don't have any kids yet but I am six weeks pregnant. Maybe I'm hormonal? I feel like none of us want to see our husband take family pictures with their first family while we sit on the sidelines. I don't feel like explaining it to my DH because I feel like it's one of those things only stepmoms can relate to. I like BM. I just don't like when we're all together at events for their kids. I would be much happier staying home or going elsewhere than feeling like second best or an extra due to the circumstances.