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Is my stepson being deliberately hurtful by not wishing me happy Mother's Day!!

Posted by on May. 13, 2014 at 4:13 PM
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My elder stepson did not wish me happy Mother's Day. The younger one said it. Later he wanted to use my cellphone to call his bio and I refused.  Reason, I give him an annual cellphone allowance to buy airtime.  So I think he wished me happy Mother's Day sothat he can later request to use my cell phone. first question, am I being unfair to expect a Mother's Day wish even if its not genuine? Second, am I unfair to believe that the other wish was not genuine? 


My husband does not know that the stepson did not wish me a happy Mother's Day! and I'm not gonna tell him as this would hurt his feelings.  

This is the boy I just bought pajamas and morning gown 3 weeks ago because he I'd not have.  This is more of a vent





by on May. 13, 2014 at 4:13 PM
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texasma06
by Member on May. 13, 2014 at 4:15 PM
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You aren't their mother. I don't expect one and didn't get one from my sd till this year. 

WifeyC
by Platinum Member on May. 13, 2014 at 4:16 PM
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I really hate to point out the obvious, but you aren't his Mom.  I think it's shitty he wanted to call one of his parents and you refused.

malinda74
by Bronze Member on May. 13, 2014 at 4:16 PM
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Wait....what?
RitaTequila531
by HushBreatheRelax on May. 13, 2014 at 4:18 PM
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You have issues and why exactly are you offended?
You're not a true mother to him.
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pepper504
by Gold Member on May. 13, 2014 at 4:18 PM
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Quoting WifeyC:

I really hate to point out the obvious, but you aren't his Mom.  I think it's shitty he wanted to call one of his parents and you refused.

This 100%.

And, is this shit even for fucking real?  I mean, damn... what is up with these posts popping out of the woodwork every hour or so?

AmericanDream
by Gold Member on May. 13, 2014 at 4:21 PM
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 You are not his mother.

It's very shitty that you refused to let him call his Mom (I'm assuming that's what you meant by bio-- but same if it was his dad) out of spite.

Tigress22304
by Ruby Member on May. 13, 2014 at 4:22 PM
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omg grow up


he's not your child you are not his mother

my sd13 hasnt told me happy mothers day-do you see me crying about it!?

fck no-because we both know who her bio mom is!

AmericanDream
by Gold Member on May. 13, 2014 at 4:22 PM

 I really should read comments before I post. I just said, basically, the same exact thing... even said "shitty."  LOL.

Quoting WifeyC:

I really hate to point out the obvious, but you aren't his Mom.  I think it's shitty he wanted to call one of his parents and you refused.

 

WifeyC
by Platinum Member on May. 13, 2014 at 4:23 PM

You are such a BM. Stop trying to be me!

Quoting AmericanDream:

 I really should read comments before I post. I just said, basically, the same exact thing... even said "shitty."  LOL.

Quoting WifeyC:

I really hate to point out the obvious, but you aren't his Mom.  I think it's shitty he wanted to call one of his parents and you refused.

 


Rachael-Dawn
by Bronze Member on May. 13, 2014 at 4:25 PM
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I feel bad for the bm and child that has to deal with you. Shame on you for not letting him call his mother and for having a sad little tantrum about not hearing one from him. You...are not... the mother.
Please be a crazy troll.
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