According to BM, SD has been "sick" 3 visitation weeks in a row supposedly with fever... SD is still however going to daycare without issue. DH mentioned to BM that if she is sick, too sick, so often to the point she is denying visitstion, why has SD not been taken to the doctor. BM says there is no need just a fever. If a fever is that consistent there is something wrong...
This passed week BM sends me a text as she often does concerning SD. BM asked if DH was going to be in from work on Saturday (this passed Saturday) she did she had a graduation ceremony to go to. I told her I wasnt sure and offered to babysit SD during the ceremony. BM declined my offer saying she will use a babysitter she uses often. BM then texts me the next day asking for money to pay for half of the babysitting fees. SERIOUSLY??? I had just talked to DH about his schedule and the possibility of him being home just minutes before she contacted me. I had just learned that DH would be arriving very late Friday night and that he was wanting visitation. I told BM that DH would be home and that we would come pick SD up Saturday morning. BM texts back and says SD is running fever and isn't a good idea...
DH told BM that regardless of fever he would be picking her up. So we did get SD on Saturday and she was completely fine, despite numerous phone calls starting 6AM sat morning arguing SD was sick. SD not only was fine but had no fever what so ever throughout the day or evening.
SD went home that night with BM since mothers day was the following day. Bought BM a card for SD (4)to give to her momma. BM texts MY phone saying thanks for the card and to tell my DH to tell me Happy Mothers Day to me too even of I am a bitch trying to play Mommy.... WTF?
I'm too busy being mommy to my own 3 kids. I treat SD like my own especially them all being so close in age. If I do happen to be involved and on the middle of something it's normally by the choice of BM bringing me in, by text, phone, email, asking for favors.
I know I'm bitching but I just don't get it, either way it's a lose lose situation.
Can she really deny visitation for sickness? Constantly and continuously?