His dd lives full time with mom. We are NCP. She has been on her ipad the whole night. If my dd isn't around she's on the ipad..in the car...in the house...where ever. Even when my dd is home she will be on it but just saying if the kids aren't around to play that's what she does.
She never gets in trouble for being on it. Hell she was crying abouT going to bed with out tv on and he gave it to her. It wasn't a school night but when my kids ask for that they get told no.
He doesn't hold her to any of the same shit he does mine. I know she on her ipad at her mom's bc she texts him at 11pm on school nights. But he won't say anything to BM bc he doesn't want her getting intro trouble.
I know my son has adhd and can be a handful so i gave up comparing with him. Atleast treat the girls the same.
She was here spring break and clearly doesn't expect to follow house rules when my kids aren't home. And on a side note he lived with family and they let her do anything so then when she's here its like I'm the bad guy bc he's only following the rules bc of me.
Sigh.....It's a losing battle
*i think it's important to add or girls r the EXACT same age.