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if you got divorced

Posted by on May. 23, 2014 at 7:22 PM
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And started dating again would you date or marry another man who already had kids?
by on May. 23, 2014 at 7:22 PM
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whatIknownow
by Emerald Member on May. 23, 2014 at 7:35 PM
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Maybe. If they were grown already. I would not want to raise any more kids. But if I dated a man with grown children, then sure.

XXanonymousXX
by Silver Member on May. 23, 2014 at 7:36 PM
I wouldn't seek it out, but I wouldn't be against it. Just as I was coming into my current relationship. Skids can be an awesome addition to your life, especially for someone like me who does not intend to have kids of my own. Skids can also be a burden, financially and emotionally. So I figure the pros and cons cancel themselves out. But I've had a great experience with my SD (not BM though), the next time I might not be so lucky.
owl0210
by Bronze Member on May. 23, 2014 at 7:49 PM
I'm divorced with a 4 yr old and engaged to a man that has a 5 yr old from a previous marriage.
CrunchMaMaBear
by Queen Crunch on May. 23, 2014 at 7:58 PM
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No NEVER
sophiesister2
by Bronze Member on May. 23, 2014 at 7:58 PM
Thats how i feel too

Quoting CrunchMaMaBear: No NEVER
jules2boys
by Gold Member on May. 23, 2014 at 7:59 PM
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I am divorced.  I'm open to dating 'anyone' (with or without kids) BUT, kids aren't the only factor that would limit who I did date. 

At my age (nearing 50), if I met someone my age, who did or didn't have kids, there are many OTHER questions I'd be asking or things to concern me other than if he has kids or not.  It would also depend on the kids ages if he had them, as well as a hundred other issues. 

RitaTequila531
by HushBreatheRelax on May. 23, 2014 at 8:00 PM


Quoting CrunchMaMaBear: No NEVER
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Boobear110
by Audra on May. 23, 2014 at 8:08 PM
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Nope I wouldn't date a man with young children. I couldn't do it again. I'm tapped out. 

leegirl_jm
by Ruby Member on May. 23, 2014 at 8:13 PM
I wouldn't marry again period but since I have my own children, no way.
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Tracylynn100
by Member on May. 23, 2014 at 8:16 PM

I am in the process of a divorce and no, agree with whatIknownow, they would have to be grown.  

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