Ok not really true, just a good title to get ya in here
. But this is important.... Please read!
So.. This comes to my QUESTION.......s
Do you as a biological mother, love your step children the exact same way that you love your biological children?
Do you think it is different for a man?
SORRY for title I apologize.
I just wanted to know because my SO Was upset that i said that. When I tried explaining that I know that any woman who carried and gave birth to a child will have a special bond with them versus another's child. He stormed out and said he did love my dd the same. So I felt like a horrible person but I can't help the way I feel. Well see I explained that I did love them. That I cared for them, I treat all my kids the same. But to that he just said "good for you". Lol.
It started because my oldest stepdd has been picking on our youngest. Just doing mean things. Like frightening her, kicking toys away while she is in tears or putting pepper in her mouth. Age diff, 11 and just turned 4. So i said maybe she is jealous.like its always a competition. He brought up that maybe it's cus at her moms she is the only girl. I said well she might not be spoiled here but she still needs to act right. I said it will always be an ongoing problem since things will not change. That no matter how much I do physically she will not be fulfilled emotionally. She will only feel that love and bond when she is with her mom. He looked puzzled, I tried explaining. He got upset and left.