SD7 and SS5. We have full custody, but BM has visitions. She is supposed to get them every other weekend. It just started a year ago. before that she didnt want them to come over. It started off okay, but slowed down. she cancelled alot. The last time they were over there, they came home saying that they were left home alone with BMs new husband. (WHICH isnt supposed to happen due to him having a violent history) My SS had bruises on his back, on his rib cage and under his armpit. He always had scratches all over. both his story and his sisters story..."He threw a temper tantrum and got yelled at. He got scared because the new husband was yelling at him so he started crying. the husband then grabbed him up, carried him upstairs and threw him down and locked him in the room."
NOW. we brought both kids in different rooms and they told the same story. My SS told me that "mommy kept saying it was an accident." My DH called BM and she said she was there the whole time and the kids are lying. That SS got the marks because they were play fighting. We called CPS and they went and spoke with my SS, took pictures and spoke with BM and her husband. They said they opened an investigation but that was the last thing we heard. a few days later we get a call froma detective, BM called the cops claiming that my DH is threatening to kill her.
These kids are my life, I know they love their mom and miss her...and I want them to see her....but I also dont want them being around a guy who is possibly hurting them. What would YOU do?
on Jun. 4, 2014 at 2:49 PM