The way the CO is worded right now, BM can choose to either get kids EOWE (standard visitation, basically) or one weekend a month. If she chooses the one weekend a month then she only has to give 14 days notice of when she wants the kids then show up and take them.
This is relatively fine right now. OSS is going into 6th grade so there are no school things that affected by this. However, next year OSS will be entering middle school.
If OSS chooses to do any kind of sports, they will be his P.E. class. He will be required to attend games and practices in order to pass the class. If he doesn't go to these because BM shows up out of the blue with her 14 day notice then he could fail his P.E. class. He has shown a lot of interest in football and we would love to encourage him but don't want him to end up failing.
DH will be going to court for CO modification soon and I'd like to know how other people have handled this.