His mother has been going through a rough time. House was recently foreclosed, had to move in with her parents, she has been jobless for nearly 2 yrs, her father recently passed away. Due to circumstances and convenience, SO has been getting his son every weekend plus mid week over nighters. They have a very volatile relationship as she tends to make threats and fly off the handle easily. SO just rolls with it, doesn't usually even argue his point for the sake of making it easier for his son.
SO was scheduled to work about 5 hrs today (his shop is about 5 mins from me) therefore it seemed like a no brainer that his son would hang out here for a bit. During the time SO texted me to have his so call his mom. Since he had to do so from my phone she discovered where he was. BTW she was calling to ask if he wanted to sleepover at his dads house an extra day. Needless to say when she realized I was watching her 12 yo son she got pretty irate and demanded he be taken home. He was bummed but I drove out to drop him off as SO was still working. I have never met her in person just seen her during drop offs and pick ups. She (understandably) was upset but seemed to be going over board. She yells out the window that she doesn't even know me and some other words I won't repeat. My thought is he is not 3 yrs old but anyways... I am not going anywhere.
My question is whether or not to call or text her when she has had time to diffuse. Offer a chance to get to know me for her son's sake. Good or bad idea????
P.S this was typed on a phone so I apologize ahead of time for typos