Some of you remember that DH is LD and his Summer visit with SS was court-enforced in May (BM signed SS up for Summer school in her local location again like last year and was pushing for Summer football workouts to override DH's Summer parenting time). Since SS arrived, he was noticably having behavior issues with DH and us and DH addressed them with him. DH also emailed BM regarding the issues because he knew that SS was undergoing a lot of stress and pressure to return back to BM's to do his Summer school (which we discovered he was STILL enrolled in and already had two unexcused absences because BM didn't withdraw him from school) and needed concurrence to have SS do counseling.
BM, in turn, e-mailed this to SS. SS wrote back to BM, and quoted a part of the e-mail and wrote back, "Mom fuck him."
BM replies, "Right! I am pissed he is even saying that!"
We discovered that BM was e-mailing EVERYTHING DH was "discussing" with her via e-mail to SS, which explained SS' ups and downs so far while he was with us.
What is appropriate to pass to children?