BM jumps in with, "SS16 is exhausted and doesn't really want to go but won't tell you that DH."
BM and DH proceed to have blow out via text.
DH says to SS16, "If you don't want to come then tell me. You are 16 not 6. If you are tired and don't want to come it's not a big deal!"
SS16 insists his mother is putting words in his mouth and yes he really wants to come but when we pick SS16 up and we get to the party SS16 pretty much drags ass all over it with his eyes half shut.
I'm pissed at BM and SS16. BM won't stop reaming DH up one side and down the other for "not thinking about the wellbeing of his son" DH is TELLING SS16 "it's ok if you don't want to come over" And you have SS16 lying to someone.
In cases like this I don't even want SS to come over.