So I've been thinking. My situation with my YDD's dad and girlfriend (exh) isn't the 'norm' I guess you can say. ExH cheated on me with my best friend of 15 years you guessed it we are no longer friends, nor do we talk.
So...I'm curious..Since she was my best friend for 15 years and decided to screw my husband in my marital home...It doesnt stop me from telling her how it is, if it came down to it. She put herself in that situation. Or telling her where she belongs, when it comes to telling mine and my exh's daughter things that arent true, Tells her she doesnt need things because "she doesnt think she is old enough for it, or changes my story to my 5 year old about where my sister is since she has passed away, etc.
How would you feel if that happened to you (ex best friend changing stories, or telling your child they don't need things cause "she says so"). Does me having the right to say something to her stop once i divorced my exh? I have only gone to exh about about her saying that my DD didnt need something, it was a xmas present. But if it did continue, it won't stop me from telling her how i feel and that she needs to knock it off.