I have two adult step sons both of which act like I don't exist. I've tried to get to know them only for them to talk behind my back & post crap about me on the internet. They make no efforts to get to know my two girls an act like we are below them.
I've given up, I ignore them an make every effort to not be around when they ( not often) visit their Dad.
When my Husband mentions them, I don't reply. He knows how they are but thinks they are great kids. I'm fine with his thinking regarding them but I have no desire to make any efforts. Am I in the right to act as if they don't exist?