I need your help. First let me say...I am not the stepmom. My ex husband recently got remarried to a woman who loves my son...great right??? Problem is that I feel she is too involved with some things. My biggest issue right now is that while my ex is deployed they feel as though his wife should have the same visitation as when he is not deployed. Our current arrangement while he is here is that we do week on week off, switching out every Monday. I do not feel that my son should spend the same amount of time with her while his Dad is gone. We also have the arrangement that since we divide time evenely while he is here we do not pay each other any sort of child support. However when he has been gone he always has. This time, however, since I don't want my son to spend every other week with her he has decided not to pay any sort of child support. I'm over the edge with anger.
What are your thoughts stepmoms? Do you think that my son should continue going over there everyother week? Please help!