For those of you who are in your second marriages, what did you do as a wedding? How involved did you let your s/kids be in the planning? Was this wedding as big as your first?
DF and I just got engaged on Saturday!! We are now discussing the wedding and are deciding on how to go about it. We both had HUGE first weddings and neither of us want that again. We both want the kids extremely involved (our 6 kids are going to be our bridal party). But as far as what to do, and who to invite, we are a little lost. Do we make it intimate, or throw a party time reception? Will extended family members who arent invited get offended? We just have so many random questions about how this wedding will/should be compared to the craziness of our first weddings!!